The world is full of “ifs, buts and maybe’s”.
You have the choice to change that.
Let me introduce you to the power of “when”.
Decisions, choices…we all have them to make. Decisions and choices about how you live your life are super-important. Often the time factor is critical. You may not know this at the time, however it usually is. Often again, you and I find this out later when we reflect on opportunities lost, on regrets etc,
‘When’ is decisive. ‘When’ is committment.
Sure, we need to “examine the landscape” before we decide. Spontaneity can be tremendous however I understand that you maynot want to jump straight in to every Life changing decision that you face. However you need to put a time frame on this. It’s too easy to push things aside and “maybe” make a decision later. Later may be too late.
Bringing “when” into your thought processes adds the urgency needed to decide and act upon the important things in your Life. Your Life moves forward, it doesn’t stagnate. “When” makes the timing right.
How many times have you heard someone say…”it’s not the right time…”. A sneaky excuse. Either do it or don’t. It’s rarely the right time.
So, as choices and decisions confront you, commit to “when”.
Put a timeframe on your decision. Decide, choose, move on.
When is a happening thing. It is now. It is permanent. It is positive.
Using ‘when’ also adds confidence to your Life. “If I achieve this…” seems so much better phrased as “when I achieve this…”
“Is my life going to get better” more appropriately phrased as “When my life gets better”
“When” is vitality. “When” erases doubt.
So, instead of delaying action with “if, but, maybe”, introduce when… you will see some amazing changes in your Life. Things will HAPPEN. You will have time to do stuff that is IMPORTANT.
I would love to hear your thoughts on this.
be good to yourself
Life Coach. Listener. Life Lover.
# I also write at personalpower4me.wordpress.com